Years ago, I heard a meditation teacher share that each morning, when she wakes up, she’s intentional about looking at her partner as if for the first time. When I first heard that, it struck me deeply—because it’s so easy to fall into patterns and assumptions about each other.

Chris and I celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary on July 29th @havn.saunas , and I’ve been reflecting on how this practice of seeing each other anew has been one of the greatest lessons of our marriage. Again and again, we’ve found our way back to softening, listening, opening—and choosing love.

In these 25 years, we’ve laughed and had so much fun. We’ve grieved losses and healed together. We’ve grown our family and discovered depths of love we never imagined. We’ve learned the power of forgiveness, the strength that comes from vulnerability, and the incredible grace of loving acceptance—both within ourselves and with each other.

Our journey hasn’t always been easy; different chapters and seasons of life have brought challenges and been deeply painful.

During a self-guided retreat in March, I reflected on how, through it all, Chris has taught me the true meaning of showing up with love. His love is unwavering, consistent, and trustworthy. He never withholds it, never makes it conditional. I know and trust that he completely has me held in love, and that is one of the greatest blessings of my life.

We’ve explored the world together, supported one another through life’s unexpected turns, and found joy in the smallest everyday moments. We’ve been held by an extraordinary community of family and friends whose presence has enriched every chapter.

As I sit with the beauty of this milestone, what rises to the surface is gratitude. For the life we’ve created. For the people we’ve become. And for the daily choice to keep showing up—authentically, with kindness, and a willingness to keep growing together.

Here’s to all the adventures still ahead, to choosing each other through it all, and to the quiet beauty of beginning again—every day.